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Parenting Debate

August 6, 2024
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Parenting Debate

Be it resolved, the Gentle Parenting ethos raises happier children

Gentle Parenting is the latest parenting craze that has taken hold among millennials who reject the authoritative principles under which they themselves were raised. This new, softer approach discourages consequences and punishments for bad behaviour in favour of positive reinforcement and a focus on the feelings and emotions which are driving bad behaviour. Proponents of gentle parenting argue that this approach is the most effective way to raise kids: emotionally-focused parenting raises calmer, happier children with increased self-esteem, emotional regulation, empathy, and builds stronger parent-child relationships. Furthermore, research shows that kids who are frequently punished don’t end up being better behaved. Gentle Parenting’s critics argue that this approach relies on emotion as a substitute for authority and does not prepare kids for the real world where actions have consequences. Too much emotional self-awareness in childhood has resulted in high rates of anxiety and depression in young adults who cannot put aside emotions in order to carry out basic daily tasks.

Arguing in favour of the resolution is Sarah Ockwell Smith. Sarah is a well known parenting expert and popular childcare author, who is widely recognized as being the founder of the gentle parenting movement.

Arguing against the resolution is Anna Lussenburg, she’s a professional child care and family intervention specialist.

“Treating children with empathy, understanding, and respect is the best way to raise children who are likely to be happier, more respectful, and have better relationships”

– SARAH OCKWELL SMITH

“Gentle parenting puts the child at the center of family life…and the result is that children can come to believe that the world revolves around them”

– ANNA LUSSENBURG

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